There is a great old blessing in the Jewish tradition:

“May you be covered in the dust of your rabbi.”

Campers – what does this mean? Well… to me, it means that you are following the teachings and habits and life of someone more learned, experienced and wise than yourself. The blessing then means… take that which you want to imitate from that teacher and become more like them.

The Imitation Game

We humans are an interesting bunch. We’ve got these great opposable thumbs, a huge brain relative to our bodies and the most intricate communication abilities in the animal world. We discovered the use of fire, survived millions of years of evolution, built machines to ply the waters and explore the stars and… developed things like Tiktok.

(Sorry – couldn’t resist.)

How did we make it this far? How did we – who are certainly weaker than lions and bears and the weather – survive and thrive from then to now?

By imitation.

We learn by imitating those who came before us who survived and thrived in a difficult place and time. We, as a species, kept doing this over and over for thousands and thousands of years. So much so that this imitation operation is unconscious in many ways. What we eat, the words that come out of our mouths, the mannerisms…

We are covered in the dust of our teachers, of those we follow and observe the most. Which begs the question:

You Choose

Who are you choosing to follow?

If this impulse is hard-wired into our operating systems, then we need to be thoughtful about who we are observing, who we are following. Because their dust – their actions, mannerisms, words, opinions – are going to collect on us and influence everything we do.

How can you tell who you are following, whose dust you are collecting?

When you are young, it’s pretty easy: just look at your parents and your older siblings. But it’s more about your parents. (So, parents… whose dust are we collecting?)

When you get older and start to naturally shift your focus towards the larger world, this is when you need to get more serious about your choices. Take a look at your phone history, web browser or calendar. What books do you read the most? What was your most listened to artist on Spotify this past year? What stories do you tell yourself the most?

My friends, we all collect dust from those we follow. Be thoughtful on who you choose. Have a great weekend!

Many of our camp families are enjoying the last weekend of summer before the start of school. That normally involves a last couple of days of sleeping in, a short trip and some packing for school.

I remember my own experiences of that well – laying out the backpack, prepping the pens and pencils, the feel of a new notebook clean from my doodles and ineffectual notes, the nerves and the questions.

Who would be different after the summer? Would there be new kids my classroom? I’d heard about the teacher, but what would they really be like? Should I act any different than I had in the past?

Now, let’s be honest – I was not thinking too much about that last question. In lower and middle school, most of us are just who we are… that collection of habits and actions and thoughts that we’ve built up over time, mostly unconsciously. Once we get into late middle school and high school, we are a bit more aware and can make (some) intentional choices on our behaviors and words.

So, what are you going bring to school in terms of who you are? Are you going to be the kid you were at camp – thoughtful, fun, engaged… the one spending time with friends without a phone in your hand or in front of your face?

Or are you going to fall into the same pattern that everyone else does? Most kids don’t know any different. They just keep doing what they did this summer – screen time, listen to an adult, see other kids a little and more screen time.

You, however, had a different experience.

You got to be around counselors, program heads and DHs who showed you how to interact face to face, how to take risks and choose your attitude. You got to see how much fun and refreshing life can be without the demands of social media and apps. Whether you wanted it to or not, the summer experience made you different… in a very good way!

So… what would I suggest you pack for school?

A little courage – go make a new friend or two. Reach out to someone you can see having a hard time connecting. A little gratitude – your teachers deserve it… and so do your parents. (Plus, you had this past summer which is a LOT to be thankful for.) Finally, remember that you have the power to choose how you react… all the time. Make sure to tuck a few great memories and stories from camp, too. Those are always fun to share.

Good luck in school this year. Remember who you are. Let your GAC make the little spot of the world around you better.

Two weeks. 14 sleeps. That’s all that stands between us getting our community back together again. Welcoming back old friends. Excitedly meeting new friends. Deciding who we want to be and doing so completely and totally in the present moment.

This summer, we get a gift: we just get to be here. Together. No phones. No tech (well… a little tech.) Good food. Great people. A ton of fun.

We are waiting for the bus to arrive with the last of our incredible staff. The 150 here right now have been tremendous. Sitting in my office writing this, I can hear them singing, dancing and chanting. Just think how much louder they’ll be when you kiddos are here!

It’s time, my friends. It’s time to plant yourself in the vibrant turf of Weequahic and bloom. Bring it on. It’s going to be the summer of our lives! See you soon.